Coba dibaca lagi. Bagian mananya saya nge-judge? Saya kan CUMA bilang, kalo udah setuju untuk ngejalanin hubungan jarak jauh, ya HARUSNYA udah sadar konsekuensinya apa aja; jarang ketemu, ga bisa ndusel-ndusel manja, ga bisa pegang-pegangan tangan atau juga pegang yang lainnya, ga bisa kayak pasangan yang tinggalnya satu kota atau satu komplek. Jadi aneh kalo akhirnya malah banyak banget ngeluh. Bukannya harusnya dari awal udah sadar kalo hubungannya ga bakal mudah? Emang saya ada nulis “Sebab terlarang bagi pasangan untuk saling merindukan”? Gak ada kaaaaan?
Maksudnya gini loh, kangen sekali-kali boleh lah. Wajar, namanya juga manusia. Tapi kalo karena kangen itu trus jadi justifikasi untuk menggalau 24 jam dalam sehari 7 hari dalam seminggu, ya kan gak lucu juga, mas/mbak. Kalo emang kangen banget, ya telfon lah, Skype lah, apa kek … udah pada gede ini. Jangan whining disana-sini. Begitu lah kira - kira …
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
*suguhin minuman*
Diminum dulu, Mbak .. aer batre-nya.
Okay. From your (anonymous) message I’m gonna guess that you’re a girl. So, here’s what I have to say to you, guuurl … I’m getting really - I mean REALLY - fuckin’ sick of girls who keeps “blaming” feelings for stuff like this.
“You can’t stop your feelings”…
“You can’t control love”…
YADDA YADDA YADDA BLAH.
Yes, I’m aware of those things but that doesn’t make the wrong right.
Women should realize that aside from the “holy” feelings they tend to use an excuse, y’all are born with a brain. To … what now? To THINK! That’s right. So why not use it? I know being in love is all about feelings, but you’re still allowed to rationalize things, y’know?
Girl meets a boy, girl likes boy, girl found out boy is taken, GIRL SHOULD START RATIONALIZING!
It’s not impossible to rationalize things when you’re in love, most of the time you just DON’T want to.
And don’t say “kalau belum pernah ngerasain” because, news flash, I’ve been there too. And it didn’t make me feel good. It made me feel pathetic. You know why? Because I deserved better. Because if the guy really likes you, you won’t have to steal him. He’s going to choose YOU. If he really likes you, he’s not going to make you feel like you’re only good enough to be the third person. If he really likes you and knows you’re worth it, he’s going to choose you without even given the options. You know what I’m saying?
In one simple sentence, give yourself some fuckin’ respect. Because if you can’t give yourself that, don’t expect others to give you any.
Ya tapiiiiiii kalo tetep mau ngejalanin hubungan kayak gitu sih, terserah ya. Hidup lo juga sih. Yang saya gak suka adalah ketika orang-orang seperti itu merasa dirinya lebih baik dari yang lain, padahal …. come on, who are we kidding here, AMIRITE?!
Jadi kalau kalian (yes, I can guess who you are and the people you hang out with) merasa boleh ngatain orang lain, harap terima kalau dikatain (balik) ama orang lain.
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Nambah lagi, Mbak … aer batre-nya?
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