(loud)silence

… some people are making a big deal out of Long Distance Relationship (LDR); either on social media such as Twitter, etc or in real life. 

And when I say “making a big deal” I mean, they just can’t fucking stop whining about it. Maybe because they’re in one at the  moment or because they just failed one. Or two. Or three. Or ten, I dunno.

I, myself - if you haven’t noticed - is in this LDR thing too at the moment. And it’s not easy, I tell you. But then again, a good, solid and committed relationship is never easy. It takes a lot, from both sides, to make it work. Being far from each other makes it even more difficult. So, yeah. It’s not a fucking walk in the park.

I admit, that there are times where I wish I could be with my fiance. But not because I don’t want to be alone on a Saturday night (unlike some most people, I find being alone on a Saturday night NOT pathetic. It’s OKAY to not be with your girl/boy friend on a Saturday night. Unless, well, you’re a freakin’ 12 year old). It’s usually because he’s ill and I just wanna take care of him. Or because he’s having such a lousy day, all I want is give him a hug. Or, because I’ve been overwhelmed with the whole wedding preparation lately, there are times where I just want him here.

If you agreed to be in a long distance relationship, I’m guessing you’ve thought about how difficult it might be. Consequences and shit. Right? If so, then why the fuck are you complaining all the freakin’ time? And by that, I mean 24/7. Like, what are you? The whiny version of 7-Eleven?

And the ones who enjoys talking crap about this type of relationship just bring others down (not that it’s working on me though), one question: WHY? 
I’m not the world’s most positive person, but I always try to not put negativity in to the minds of others.
It’s hard enough for them - for us - to make the relationship work due the distance, y’know? 
If you’ve had failed long distance relationships before, well … sucks for you. But please don’t think - or even worse, to wish - the same thing for others. It’s just … pathetic.

Calling people who are willing to be in a long distance relationship stupid? 
Well, at least we don’t spend our time trying to steal other people’s boyfriend and then play the sad, omg-I-wanna-kill-myself, victim card/role because YOU feel like YOU are not getting the attention you want.
Or, create stories about being pregnant just so he would leave his girlfriend for you (go easy on your daily dosage of Sinetron, Ma’am).

And you’re calling US stupid?
For actually trying to keep a relationship that is ours?
Fo’ real?! 

BITCH, PLEASE.

Now go swim with that group of Piranhas.